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Tag Archives: a single man
A Single Man 《单身男人》:我们用生命的每一天来准备死亡
第一次看这片子是在2010年,从Redbox租的one night DVD,看完之后没有特别的感觉,只觉得华美,做作,演员演技好。昨天晚上在豆瓣上翻电影,突然动了念头把这部电影再看一遍,看完了之后,仍然觉得华美,做作,但却突然明白了作者要说的是什么,蚀心入骨的悲伤。 如果明天是你生命中的最后一天,你会用来做什么?大部分人的选择是:和最爱的人在一起。但为什么如果不是最后一天,我们就可以放弃与最爱的人在一起这个选择?难道我们会知道,哪天才是生命的最后一天? 我们不知道。即使失去爱侣,打算自杀的George也不知道。他本来为自己的最后一天安排了样本般的生活,却在最后的时刻发现生活重新回到了轨道。他悲哀地认识到,死于大雪中的爱人终将远去,自己总有一天会淡忘那像冰川一样的蓝灰色眼睛。生活中总有新的感情、新的颜色在等着他;即使在生命的最后一天,即使已做好的赴死的决心,也永远不能抗拒活着的世界。 所以你永远不知道哪一天是你生命的最后一天。我们所知的是,从出生起,我们的每一天都是用来准备死亡的。你以为你逃脱了这命运时,命运正在向你无声地走来。 在有限的生命里,我们所能做的,也不过是在日复一日刻板的行程仪式之后,抓住那些“如果现在就死了我也愿意”了的时刻。